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([personal profile] kihou Sep. 7th, 2025 11:06 pm)
Kiddo's gotten to the point of being able to produce on demand various animal sounds, which is quite a fun development. (Also trains.) He's also gotten reasonably good at signing "more", which is really the most useful baby sign. So I guess we're officially in the "responding to questions in a pattern-matching way" phase.

We stayed with my folks at a place near Syracuse, it was good to see them and it was nice and chill. Don't need a lot to keep kiddo interested outside right now.

Aside from that, we've been doing some fun outings (aquarium, Garden in the Woods, zoo, apple picking, in addition to our usual library/book store rotation). He's not always super-attentive to what we're notionally there to see, but he likes running around and messing with leaves and gravel and all that jazz, and sometimes he'll be interested in flamingos for a bit or whatever.

He likes cars and watching them, and also pointing at and watching planes fly overhead (though he has not mastered the word "plane" yet). He does not like dogs barking at him, though.

I didn't want to be a staring-at-phone parent so I'm now a paperback-in-purse parent, and it's been super nice. Spending more time reading than I have since I stopped riding the bus daily, and it highlights for me how easy it is to spend time online and not notice you're not really having fun.

On that note, recent reading:

Hammajang Luck by Makana Yamamoto: a fun sci fi heist with a uniquely Hawai'i-centric sci fi community, reminded me of some of Tobias Buckell's Caribbean-centric sci fi in that way. Definitely a fun read, but spent a lot of time on build-up and ended up feeling a bit overly straightforward/twist-light for a heist: too much things going according to a plan when we the audience has been told the plan, with an occasional side of acting like something's a big reveal when it'd been obvious from the beginning. But some fun gender stuff, some schtick-y relationships, and some fun playing-around with genre conceits, so it was an enjoyable read nevertheless. And I do like books that unapologetically let characters talk how they'd really talk without catering to a "standard" English-speaking audience.

Numbers in the Dark by Italo Calvino, a collection of less-well-known short stories. I love Calvino so I really enjoyed it, it being sorta a grab-bag aside. The earlier stuff felt thematically unified and also a bit excessively relevant, writing about facism and union dynamics in the aftermath of WWII. The later stuff was more all over the place, with some fun Bruce Holland Rogers-reminiscent surreal shortshorts and also a segment that was basically "what if Invisible Cities was actually about Cassanova talking about his lovers". Not the first Calvino to read but I'd recommend it if you already like Calvino.

The Mirror of Her Dreams by Stephen R. Donaldson is a book I'd picked up in college and vaguely remembered liking but wasn't sure if I wanted to keep. The short version is no, I don't. ^_^ I'm abstractly interested in the pre-isekai 80s-ish genre of novels where someone is summoned from our world to another world as a savior, distinct from Narnia-esque portal fantasy in that there's well-defined mortal magic doing the summoning, the summoned person has an explicit cheat power, and it's not such a pat coming of age thing. (Spellsinger is the other one in this category I read back in the day that comes to mind.) But anyways this particular example was not very good. It does the "we spend the first book not resolving anything so you read the sequel" thing I dislike, and just is overly repetitive and non-progress-making about it. The seductive jerk keeps almost seducing the protagonist, people keep trying to kill her and she doesn't know why, people keep interrogating her and she doesn't know who to trust. Also people make bad decisions for the sake of the plot, or whatever. And people are obnoxiously incurious about her cheat power or about helpful uses of the normal mirror magic, because I guess book one only gets to raise the stakes and no one can do helpful things until book two. Grargh.

Also played Kedamono Opera with some folks and it was really great. Not going to repost my whole Bluesky thread here, but it has a really cool deal where the cost of using powers or of failing roles is to establish "portents" of things that must happen later on in the story, for good or ill, which does some really cool stuff narratively. It also highlights how useful a good module can be for keeping a one-shot moving, which is something that I think is often overlooked in the indie ttrpg space.

Cheers!
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([personal profile] tablesaw Sep. 7th, 2025 03:39 pm)

Following up on the last post, Inbox Zero has been working well. I cleared out my main inbox back to about mid 2019, which appears to be the time that I arbitrarily marked everything in my inbox as read. When I started I had over twenty thousand unread conversations, and I finished with a Trash folder containing over twenty-seven thousand items. I'm now undertaking the same process on my real-name account, and it's going well.

And it's been a pretty good low-effort project to work on while dealing with my first case of COVID-19.

Last Thursday night (August 28), I was feeling unusually antsy regarding my sinuses so I decided to take a COVID test to put my mind at ease. It did not do that. Instead, I woke up Psyche and we figured out how we were going to deal with isolation. I logged into work to tell them that I'd tested positive, but the symptoms were minor, and I would not be working on Friday. I then proceeded to develop a raging fever for the next 24 hours or so. A few days later, Psyche tested positive despite our best efforts, and we have spent the rest of the week muddling through major fatigue coupled with relatively minor flu symptoms.

There is, of course, no good time to be laid out for over a week, but it was particularly rough because we had been the main people organizing the logistics for the 74th wedding anniversary of Psyche's grandparents, an event scheduled to take place last Sunday. So she had to spend a frantic few days collecting all of the remaining tasks and assigning them to various members of her family, all while having to sit at home while everyone enjoyed the party we threw.

As for contact-tracing, I believe I was exposed when visiting with Psyche's other grandmother, who had been sick (untested) earlier that week; and then I exposed Psyche before testing positive myself. Given the way our positive test results seem to be hanging on longer than our main symptoms, it's not too hard to believe that Grammy was still shedding virus when I visited. I didn't spend much time with her directly, but the windows were generally closed in the house.

It's been a week and a half of sleeping and hydrating and then doing it again but reversed.

In less plaguey developments, I'm looking forward to this year's Beyond Fest which will be announcing its full slate this week. So far, the only screenings announced or for a retrospective of Guillermo del Toro, and I have tickets to see his early works (Cronos, The Devil's Backbone, and Mimic) and a screening of Pan's Labyrinth. I will also be in New York at the beginning of October for a work trip and am making the time to see Reeves and Winters in Waiting for Godot before flying back home.

I just need a negative test soon...

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([personal profile] sanguinity Sep. 5th, 2025 01:23 pm)
Manoeuvres Under Fire (2013 words) by sanguinity
Chapters: 1/1
Fandom: The Jacobite Trilogy | The Flight of the Heron Series - D. K. Broster
Rating: Teen And Up Audiences
Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
Relationships: Ewen Cameron/Alison Grant/Keith Windham, Alison Grant/Keith Windham, Ewen Cameron/Keith Windham, Ewen Cameron/Alison Grant
Characters: Alison Grant, Keith Windham, Ewen Cameron
Additional Tags: Emotional Repression, Angst, Affection, Midnight Confessions, Polyamory
Summary:

Alison's husband's new lover is all irony, deflection, and formality. She likes him well enough, but she also finds his reserve frustrating — and apparently so does he.



Because I've been on a Keith and Alison kick lately. (At least judging by my wip folder.)

For [personal profile] tgarnsl, because we both have an obsession with Keith being feral cat who never properly learned affection as a kitten.
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([personal profile] sanguinity Sep. 1st, 2025 03:31 pm)
From N.A.M. Rodger's The Wooden World: Anatomy of the Georgian Navy (1986), copied here for my reference, since this needs to go back to the libary. (Do not take copying as endorsement, please.)

Homosexuality in the Georgian Royal Navy )
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([personal profile] sanguinity Sep. 1st, 2025 03:13 pm)
Alison Bechdel, Spent: A Comic Novel (2025)

The Dykes to Watch Out For cast returns, absent Mo, who is replaced by "Alison," a neurotic graphic novelist who is suffering (not very graciously) through the indignity of her bestselling graphic novel about her father's death, Death and Taxidermy, being made into a hit TV show. Meanwhile, Alison is struggling to write $UM: An Accounting, a graphic memoir about the role of money in Alison's life.

(...which is, presumably, Spent itself. Spent does talk a little bit about Alison's finances, but I didn't think it had much to say on the subject that was terribly insightful.)

Mo always annoyed me back in the day, and I don't like her doppleganger "Alison" any better. In fact, "Alison's" griping about the success of Death and Taxidermy leaves me wondering if Alison Bechdel resents those of us who loved the musical Fun Home? Idk, it all just left me with a bad taste in my mouth.

However, I loved getting to hang out with the core the DTWOF squad: Ginger, Lois, Sparrow, and Stuart. Sparrow and Stuart's offspring, J.R. (they/them), is college-aged now, and absolutely steals the show. They are so righteous and black-and-white and angry. The kid believes that the older DTWOF generation are all bourgeois sell-outs, and everything the older generation says only confirms it. J.R. is aces at pushing all the DTWOF crew's buttons, and I love the kid to pieces.


Neil Sharpson (illus. Dan Santat), Don't Trust Fish (2025)

Children's book riffing on the cladistic incoherence of "fish" and launching from there into a full-blown conspiracy theory. (After all, every conspiracy is fueled by a seed of truth, is it not?) I note, however, that this conspiracy theory serves a second purpose as pro-crab propaganda, and internal evidence suggests that the book may even have been written by a crab! (The author's bio strenuously denies this, but the book's pro-crab agenda cannot be denied.) Those of us well up on our evolutionary biology, however, note that "crabs" are also cladistically incoherent, and thus no more trustworthy than fish. Hmmm...

Moral: trust neither fish nor crabs, and most of all, do not trust this book.


Jonathan Green, The Vulgar Tongue: Green's History of Slang (2015)

Less a history of slang, and more a history of lexicographer's sources for slang. Beginning with beggar books of the fifteenth and sixteeth centuries, Green traces the ever-expanding sources for English slang up through the present moment. Early on, sources mostly consist of moralizing glossaries serving the dual purpose of titillation and warning; later on there were lexicographies for lexicography's sake; eventually, however, slang expanded into plays, novels, lyrics, and newspapers. There are dedicated chapters for the slang of Cockneys, Australians, Gays, African-Americans, the military, and other groups, as well as a dedicated chapter on (hetero)sexual slang. Most chapters give a smattering of newly coined words from each source, plus a discussion of how the source (and its description or use of slang) fit into its societal moment. For some topics, he'll also discuss trends, influences, and evolution in the slang itself.

Random notes )

Anyway, it was a fascinating read, lots of good gossip, learned a ton of stuff, nice multi-century tour of the underbelly of Anglophone social history, and you could build a suggested reading list from this that would keep you going for the rest of your life, easily.
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([staff profile] mark posting in [site community profile] dw_maintenance Aug. 31st, 2025 07:37 pm)

Per the [site community profile] dw_news post regarding the MS/TN blocks, we are doing a small code push shortly in order to get the code live. As per usual, please let us know if you see anything wonky.

There is some code cleanup we've been doing that is going out with this push but I don't think there is any new/reworked functionality, so it should be pretty invisible if all goes well.

A reminder to everyone that starting tomorrow, we are being forced to block access to any IP address that geolocates to the state of Mississippi for legal reasons while we and Netchoice continue fighting the law in court. People whose IP addresses geolocate to Mississippi will only be able to access a page that explains the issue and lets them know that we'll be back to offer them service as soon as the legal risk to us is less existential.

The block page will include the apology but I'll repeat it here: we don't do geolocation ourselves, so we're limited to the geolocation ability of our network provider. Our anti-spam geolocation blocks have shown us that their geolocation database has a number of mistakes in it. If one of your friends who doesn't live in Mississippi gets the block message, there is nothing we can do on our end to adjust the block, because we don't control it. The only way to fix a mistaken block is to change your IP address to one that doesn't register as being in Mississippi, either by disconnecting your internet connection and reconnecting it (if you don't have a static IP address) or using a VPN.

In related news, the judge in our challenge to Tennessee's social media age verification, parental consent, and parental surveillance law (which we are also part of the fight against!) ruled last month that we had not met the threshold for a temporary injunction preventing the state from enforcing the law while the court case proceeds.

The Tennesee law is less onerous than the Mississippi law and the fines for violating it are slightly less ruinous (slightly), but it's still a risk to us. While the fight goes on, we've decided to prevent any new account signups from anyone under 18 in Tennessee to protect ourselves against risk. We do not need to block access from the whole state: this only applies to new account creation.

Because we don't do any geolocation on our users and our network provider's geolocation services only apply to blocking access to the site entirely, the way we're implementing this is a new mandatory question on the account creation form asking if you live in Tennessee. If you do, you'll be unable to register an account if you're under 18, not just the under 13 restriction mandated by COPPA. Like the restrictions on the state of Mississippi, we absolutely hate having to do this, we're sorry, and we hope we'll be able to undo it as soon as possible.

Finally, I'd like to thank every one of you who's commented with a message of support for this fight or who's bought paid time to help keep us running. The fact we're entirely user-supported and you all genuinely understand why this fight is so important for everyone is a huge part of why we can continue to do this work. I've also sent a lot of your comments to the lawyers who are fighting the actual battles in court, and they find your wholehearted support just as encouraging and motivating as I do. Thank you all once again for being the best users any social media site could ever hope for. You make me proud and even more determined to yell at state attorneys general on your behalf.

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([personal profile] jadelennox Aug. 30th, 2025 06:25 pm)

Thought process: "Why isn't there a biopic about John Brown? His life was weird and full of adventures and it would be a banger. Wait, maybe there is, let me check wikipedia... oh my goodness these are very different movies."

If anyone's seen any of these and they're worth watching (because good), or hatewatching, or avoiding like the plague, then let me know!

  1. Santa Fe Trail (1940), with Raymond Massey as John Brown, also Errol Flynn, Olivia de Havilland, and Ronald Reagan as General Custer. That's certainly some casting?

    Wikipedia says:

    [The film] depicted Brown completely unsympathetically as a villainous madman and Massey plays him with a constant, wild-eyed stare. The film gave the impression that he did not oppose slavery

    and quotes from the film:

    Mammy: "Well, Old John Brown said he's gonna give us freedom, but shuckins, if this here Kansas is 'freedom', then I got no use for it. No, sir." Then, a black man adds, "Me, neither. I just wants to get back home to Texas and sit till Kingdom Come."

    So this certainly sounds like a gem.

  2. The Good Lord Bird (2020 miniseries), starring Ethan Hawke as John Brown and an large cast including Daveed Diggs, Orlando Jones, and...Killer Mike? Sure, why not.

    Did I know about this one? I bet I did—it won a lot of awards—but everyone's brain was oatmeal in 2020 and I am not sure I formed long term memories. Also maybe I heard of it and assumed it was about the Lord God Bird (the ivory billed woodpecker) because who wouldn't assume that?

    Anyway the assessment of this is mostly a lot of awards and a positive rotten tomatoes rating so probably a safer bet watching Daveed Diggs as Frederick Douglass instead of Ronald Reagan as George Custer, yeow.

I can't really drink alcohol anymore so there's no point in saving a bottle of something expensive and wonderful for when the day finally comes.

I briefly wondered if I should acquire a vuvuzela so I have it when I need it, but I realized this will be basically a textbook example of a moment for which shofarot are made. I can usually get a good trumpet blast or nine. I'm prepared.

See you all in the streets. Maybe it will happen tomorrow.

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